Made some Dahl with her last night and hit the mindset going of cleaning fully right after the cooking (as an example). It really actually started going downhill after both her patents had passed away, (before the Florida move that happened not too long before 9/11 for an idea of that era. ) which makes sets as well, when you think about it. Still have organizing to do but, it’s getting there in her mentality as well which is an extreme first step. Part of the chaos of why the beach trip was needed is affecting me still but, that will get taken care of this upcoming week and today. There has been a lot of longer commutes this past week. It’s getting there! This YouTube channel popped up on my algorithm today. It’s like wisdom from granny. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕🧿🧿🧿🧿I’m having a different relationship with Clorox wipes and appreciating them more. 🧿🧿🧿she modified a recipe to the point I was mentioning she should write the modification down and put it in her recipe box. She has one of newspaper recipes from over the years. 🧿🧿🧿🧿her stroke was in 2015. 🧿🧿she would clean up after cooking before but would wait a bit long for it . At least longer than I prefer for something like that (I prefer right away, TBH) 🧿🧿🧿🧿sigh the astrology of June as it is, the timing for all of this is perfect. I have been intentional about the Jupiter in Cancer transit with this process as well (that ended on June 10, very recently) 🧿🧿🧿🧿my own ancestral work actually has encouraged her to put up an ancestral altar space gradually especially for her momma. (She passed away in 1999, I’m pretty sure.we had her in a care facility because she needed care 24/7. Grandpa was a bit different with that so we were able to keep him at home the whole time but there was a question of that with him as well especially in the most intense part of the diagnosis (severe prostate cancer. He was a skeleton by the end as far as weight loss. 💔💔💔💔💔💔 earlier on in it. Her having that for grandma Jean says a lot because they loved each other but most definitely had their issues as well. 🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️